Thursday, 10 October 2019

POWERFUL WORDS, MODELS & CONDITIONS


Don’t let others define you, define yourself, write your own story 
( Mummy Beeka)
Our Royal House communicates we define and choose our own identity 

A) POWERFUL WORDS CREATE REALITY


There is power in the words humans utter silently within and externally. Psychologists have found that internal conversations are powerful enough to heal, harm or inspire action. The personal and career reality sought are kick-started, communicated and achieved via relevant words and consistent action. The greats and Dr Maya Angelou believe words are powerful saying “A negative statement is poison, I’m convinced that if you allow the negative to perch in your house, in your mind, in your life, it can take you over. The words climb into the woodwork, into the furniture, and the next thing you know, they’re on your skin. That’s why I decided a long time ago that I would no longer legitimise certain negative topics by granting them airtime”.


Therefore, consciously and consistently, think, speak, write and behave more positive. Use more positive words to communicate with yourself, family, colleagues and team. People don’t care how much you know until you show them you care about their progress and development. Remain crystal clear about the positive personal and career achievements wanted or needed in life to assist physical action and actualisation.
B) AVOID NEGATIVE CONDITIONING; EMBRACE POSITIVE CONDITIONING

Work and operate only in positive environments. Avoid negative entertainment and environments. Dr. Boyce Watkins says “Anyone who has studied psychology understands that the mantras we repeat to ourselves sink into our subconscious in ways that even we ourselves don’t notice. If every chorus we recite is built on self-destructive activities, like sexual irresponsibility or violence, we may easily find ourselves becoming de-sensitized to otherwise poor decisions. Those who already lie on the margins of our society are most vulnerable to the messages of artists who encourage thinking that is devoid of responsibility or productivity”.

Additionally, what sort of environment are you conditioning, if the adverse rather than positive man-up or woman-up. Change for the better, reduce the pull a person down collusion syndrome affecting some parts of society, because it is an illness that holds some angry and in the mud. Goldie Hawn said she operates a gossip free house. Gabrielle Union communicates being mean in the end only hurts the cruel who only pretends to be happy. She learnt that speaking, being and focusing on positives in practice was essential to a truly happier life.

C) ARE YOU A POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE ROLE MODEL?
A genuine leader is not a searcher for consensus but a molder of consensus (Dr. Martin Luther King. Jr)

Are you a positive or negative role role-model? Agreed, not everyone wants to be a role model yet many influence others. There are excellent inspirational leader or horrible prominent leaders that attained office or societal positions. All habits, conduct and behaviour are copied. Kids, adults, staff, strangers imitate what they see or those they admire. Therefore, we all contribute to the creation of a worse or better world. When people meet you, what is their impression? What causes would you have fought against? e.g. bullying. What do you stand against? What do you stand for? Rosa Parks said The only tired I was, was tired of giving in”. Who have you influenced? Africapitalist Tony Elumelu said “In leadership, the first success must occur inside you”.

D) A LESSON, A BLESSING, OR A LIFETIME


Everyone or situation encountered is predestined, a pass-away lesson, a blessing, or a lifetime contact. The past and present influences choices and the future. Our choices are a core part of who we are, or who we will become. Almost every event is preordained through human choices. It may not appear so but problems will resolve or pass-away. If you could not handle and/or survive the lessons the cross could have diverted. Therefore, go high above all low negatives. Build your preferred identity. Do not allow blips and problems become your identity. However, do not become a push-over, stand against and fight all adversity. Likely, certain ‘lessons’ are issues the universe exposes as causes for attention to stand against when ignorance becomes expensive. Never accept the labels the insignificant try to make stick; Your identity is your choice. Its Possible


You are a lifetime blessing
Ensure you are a rainbow and blessing, at all times. Learn consistently, engage in positives, count your blessings, problem-solve and appreciate every single personal or career achievement, and those in your life for a lifetime. These positives enhance life quality and a better future.

Remember, a stable internal identity, conversations and the words uttered are powerful, only you can talk yourself in or out of your own dreams, and goals. Know that the materials, books or quotes you read, the music you listen to, the films you watch, the people (role-models) you admire, what you read, study and where you work all subconsciously condition your world. Therefore, positively condition your world with positive resources, persons and an intrapreneurial or entrepreneurial career. You are loved. 


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